In India, culture is not like Western countries.
Here, parents finds husband/wife for their children and arranged marriage takes place.
This is how Indian culture is.
If someone finds him/herself their life partner, it’s big deal to convince parents for that till date.
And there are many reasons behind this culture. Due to such a nice culture, marriage not gets broken.
But, what I heard from parents was shocking at least as an Indian.
Their small of two sons found a girl for himself. But, as the big brother don’t get married he can’t marry, again Indian ritual. So, parents were talking public that we told our elder son to find a girl in garden, like your younger brother. but, he is not finding one. So, we can’t do marriage of younger son.
Rather as an Indian parents it comes in their responsibility to find a girl for him, they encourage to do what their another child has done.
So, it was very bad feeling when parents talk for their children like this.
I think it’s okay if he finds one. But, should not talk openly like this…
What do you think?
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hey dere ,
I really like your point of view on such things… n ugreat to relate widr blogs r
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Thanks dear! I really appreciate your inputs.
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ऐसा कोई नियम नहीँ है, अगर कहीं ऐसा होता है तो बहिन बहुत तेज होती है, जिसके डर से पेरैंट्स पहले उसे निकालने की सोचते हैं।
ऐसा हमने तभी देखाहै जब sister तेज हो या घर का खर्च उठाती हो।अगर घर का खर्च उठाएगी तो हो सकताहै, उसकी सैलरी के लालच में शादी के बाद पता नहीं भाई भाभी का मन बदल जाए व शादी न होने दें।।
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Sorry, but I don’t understand your point. What you want to convey?
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I am talking about boys not girls
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हमने ब
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मालूम है, पर ऐसा हर घर में नहीं होता है।
भाइयों की शादी sister ke karn tb rukti h jb parents dekh lete h ki brother ki shadi kr di,sistr fir roj fight karegi bhabhi se.
Ya fir sistr ghr ka kharcha uthati h to,parents darte h ki agar bhai ki shadi pahle kt di to fir shayad vo sister k liye ladka search hi na kare,kyonki aaj jo desh me ho raha h vo sab money matters hi h. Kahi aisa h toumr niklne k pahle khud search kre
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Very interesting blog Divyang! Superb love this post yes this is how Indian culture is but it works for some and it doesn’t work for others. Culture is culture but sometimes the cosmos have other plans for us.
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Thanks for your kind words. It boots me for writing. Yes, everyone has their different destiny 🙂
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Yes this is the dark side of our society……just for reputation and in the name of culture many times parents just blame children
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